Mary Grace, you are FIVE!

Dear Mary Grace,

Happy fifth birthday!  I can't believe that you're already five.  They're really not kidding when they say "it goes by so fast." 

I don't even know what to say...  You're not a little baby anymore - someone who can be summed up in one page.  You're a whole person.  Psychologists say that your personality is fully formed by the time you're five, and that who you are down deep inside doesn't change much between now and when you're an adult.  I hope that's true, because there is so much about you that's so wonderful, and I hope it's all permanent.

You love people.  Everywhere we go you find a kid about your age and you say, "Hi, I'm Mary Grace and this is my sister, Claire.  What's your name?"  You are very outgoing and friendly, and you have lots and lots of friends as a result.  When you're around littler kids, you're very patient with them.  And you love playing with bigger kids.  You can't get enough of Lucy and Jane and their friends, and the older girls in our neighborhood.  You really get along well with everyone. 

Speaking of littler kids, you're really looking forward to having a new little brother or sister this winter.  Right now you're saying you want a brother because you already have a sister.  You come up with interesting suggestions for baby names - this morning it was "Hannay" and "Rosalinda."  You ask me all kinds of really good questions about "Baby Gozer," and you know all about how s/he's growing, what an umbilical cord is for, and so on.  You have such a quick, curious mind.

Claire is truly your best friend.  You are so sweet together.  During school, you always save half of your snack for her.  Daddy took you out for your birthday breakfast today, and you brought home half of it for Claire.  You're always there to protect her, too, if bigger kids bug her at the playground, or if she gets hurt.  Earlier this year she got stuck in a slide at Monkey Joe's, and you came right out and got me.  You two play together so well, and I am so happy that you're each others' best friends. 

We went to Huntsville recently, and I loved watching you explore with your daddy.  You are so bright and so quick, and you understand so many things - and when you don't understand something right away, you keep trying until you figure it out.  Daddy and I are both proud of what a hard worker you are.  You love learning, reading books, going new places, math and science, robots, space...  I hope you always love learning as much as you do now.

Here's the checklist I started doing when you were a baby:

Your favorite toy for playing is: your Toy Story characters

Your favorite toy for snuggling is: your panda bears

Your favorite food is: blueberries

Your favorite book is: Stellaluna

Your favorite activity is: building robots with Daddy

Your favorite place to go is: the Children's Museum

Your best friend is: Claire

Something new that you're doing: coloring inside the lines and using the correct colors for things, instead of just scribbling.  We tease that you color like it's your job! 

Something you've mastered: letting Max in and out of the back door, helping me with laundry, sorting the silverware when it comes out of the dishwasher, setting the table... 

Something people say about you: "She's so funny!"

Something that you're saying is: "Mommy, I know how to iPhone."  "Can I go play with my friends?" 

Something Dad and I are proud of you for: earlier in the year we thought you'd be starting kindergarten this fall, but it turns out that you missed the cut off by 10 days.  You have been SO good about this change in plans, and you haven't gotten angry or upset with us at all, even though we were all a little disappointed. 

Something surprising about you: how tall you are - you're already wearing size 6 clothes because the 4s and 5s are too short. It's surprising because I'm so short.  You'll probably be taller than I am by 2nd grade.

What you want to be when you grow up: a veterinarian

I love you so much, and I am so lucky to be your mom.  I hope today is all full of special memories! 

Love,
Mommy

Wolf Park

Trying something new with the kids today. They aren't impressed. I think they think it's just like watching Max, except behind a fence. Maybe they'll like it better when they bring out the bison.

Blame the Baby

When I'm pregnant, I have the attention span of a ...  oh look!  Something shiny!

(Hope this explains the profound lack of posts...  :) )

Brief Baby Update

My blood pressure - 108/64 (excellent)

Fundal height - 18 cm (which is exactly what it should be)

Heart rate - 160 (another girl?  Too soon to tell...)

Fetal movement (while trying to find the heartbeat) - lots

My weight gain - ONE POUND, 5.5 ounces of which is baby!  I'm thrilled about that!

Urinalysis - negative for everything bad


So far so good!  The anatomy scan is in 2 weeks!

A Few Observations

If you have to get blood drawn, try to get the oldest phlebotomist in the joint.  Someone who has drawn blood 10,000 times is naturally going to be better at it than someone who has done it 1,000 times.  It may not be a big deal for us grown ups, but next time my kids need blood drawn (knock wood) I'm going to ask, "Who's retiring next?  We want her to do it."
(Yes, I know all those 20 year olds need practice if they're going to get as good as the grannies.  I don't care.  They can practice on someone else's kid.)

The 20 year old who drew mine this morning really hurt me, to the point where I said, "OH OWWW!" out loud.  I had blood drawn last week (gotta keep an eye on my liver - so far so good) and the Betty White lookalike who did it did a MUCH better job.  I barely felt it.  Incidentally, I always ask for the baby needle.  Why let them use a hose-sized needle if they don't have to?  It's not like I get extra points for being brave.  It's not like the baby needle costs more.  I see no reason to suffer.

Yes, I give birth naturally and I'm afraid of having blood drawn, what's it to ya?  The worst part of Claire's birth was getting the IV, no joke.  Although, to be honest, it could just be because there was nobody cheering me on.  I like attention.

In food news, I made these muffins yesterday, and they are awesome, and only 195 calories each (although that doesn't help if you have two, as I just did).  The only trouble is that they stick like crazy to the paper, even though I sprayed the paper with Pam.  Any suggestions?

Greek Yogurt is awesome.  I'm eating the Dannon brand (with honey) right now for breakfast, and it's delightful.  The texture is much thicker than the yogurt we're used to in the U.S.  Yum!


This article about supplements is pretty scary.  I don't think I'll be taking any supplements that come from China any time in the future.  If we can't trust them to keep lead out of toys, how can we trust them to keep toxic chemicals out of supplements?  Although, someone on Fark.com brought up the excellent point that a lot of prescription drugs cause heart problems, liver failure, etc. too.  Just don't take anything. 

And Dad's here, so now I've gotta go to work.  Happy Wednesday!  I'm 18 weeks today, can you believe it?